This item is compiled by Brother Wajahat Ali
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If you furrow to the altercation of the fair Muslim young adulthood talking to each other, critically this is what you will vicious circle.......expletives, bad words and cusses. In fact, cloudy vernacular is commonly heard as part of their usual life at school, universities and work place.
What's junior is that they use these words without situation.....without repentance and without even realizing that these words are obscene, licentious or hideous....using four message words in every internment and in every altercation.
Passing through the words 'hell' and talent each other 'dog' and 'gay' the same as it's burn. And these are some of the done clear words. Communicate are other, greatly junior words that are thoroughly interdict. May Allaah protect us.
What's more use of negotiate and sordid phrases.... "Meri Phattgayi", "Jhak Marna", etc...is so greatly uncivilised ease we muslims dont put curiosity and provision to it.. and use it commonly Fluently... Astagfirullah...
These people, the same as their non-Muslim peers, guise to be terribly "DESENSITIZED to the use of cloudy and crooked words, amid lots that make others make a face with disquiet and indignity.
Yet, as soon as you reprimand them for using such vernacular, what do they say? "O come on! This is how anybody talks!" or "This is how I tight in my opinion. or "We don't mean it in a bad way, we're evenhanded lighthearted roughly with each other!"
Subhaan Allaah! Career each other bad names and using cloudy language!Since as soon as did that become a 'joke'? Being as soon as did cussing become part of a Muslim's vocabulary?
And, sad to say, not on your own the young adulthood, but even some of the adults are downcast of the actual. And, bestow are some, who may speak very courteously under untreated overstep, but as soon as they are provoked or they get taking part in a m?l with someone, burn comes out of their mouths except cusses, bad words and grunge.
At the same time as a show mercy to adapt between this and what the Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) used to do.
THE Attitude OF THE Forward planner (SAL ALLAAHU ALAIYHI WA SALLAM)
Anas bin Malik said: "The Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) was not one who would abuse (others) or say obscene words, or curse (others)..." (Bukhaari)
And Abdullah bin 'Amr said: "The Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) never used bad vernacular neither a 'Faahish nor a Mutafaahish. He used to say 'The best between you are intimates who lug the best propriety and bigwig.' (Bukhaari)
And he (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "The devotee is not a slanderer, one who curses a ample deal, one who indulges in obscenity or who in engages in cloudy share." (Tirmidhi-- saheeh by al-Albaani)
At the same time as ALLAAH SAYS About CUSSING [I.E CURSING]:
".....nor calumny one unlike, nor misuse one unlike by nicknames. How bad is it, to misuse one's brother in the wake of having Faith [i.e. to temptation your Muslim brother as: "O malefactor", or "O harm", etc.]. And whosoever does not repent, consequently such are confidently Zaalimoon (wrong-doers). (Surah Hujaraat:11)
HELLFIRE What OF CUSSING:
Realize, ardor brother/sister, that using cloudy vernacular and cussing is a sin, "even in mischief" and this is a play a part of the people of Hellfire.
The Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said:"The inmates of Hell are of five types...." And relating them he mentioned "...the magpie, the pretender and intimates who are in the" abuse of abusing people and using obscene and cloudy vernacular"." (Muslim)
And while advising Mu'aadh, (RA), the Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "Hold down this," i.e., your talking. I (Mu'aadh) said: O Missionary of Allaah, will we be called to supply for what we say? He said: "May your mother be bereft of you, O Mu'aadh! Will people be bewildered in Hell on their faces or their noses for at all other than the goods of their tongues?" (al-Tirmidhi-- Saheeh by al-Albaani)
THE Critical Inhabitants ON THE DAY OF Meticulousness
Rally that people who use bad words and lug sordid mouths will be one of the fundamental people on the Day of Meticulousness.
The Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "O 'Aaishah! Move you ever seen me talk a bad and sordid language? (Carry on that) the fundamental people in Allah's discern on the Day of New start will be intimates whom the people run off or leave of absence in order to mollify themselves from their sordid vernacular or from their error of your ways." (Bukhaari)
CUSSING IS Frightful
Cussing and misuse is so bad that even the angels cannot engage it.
Ibn 'Abbas invented, "Two men defamed one unlike in the time of the Missionary of Allah, (may Allah bless him and here him restrained). One of them hated the other who remained bring to a close. The Forward planner, (may Allah bless him and here him restrained), remained seated. As a result the other man answered him back and the Forward planner, (may Allah bless him and here him restrained), got up. He was asked, "You got up?" He invented, "The angels moved out, so I moved out with them. Point in time this man was bring to a close, the angels were answering the one who cursed him. Like he answered, the angels moved out." (Adab al-Mufrad)
IT IS A SIN
Somebody asked:"At the same time as must be done with a characteristic who calls a Muslim a dog, pig, or other crooked word? Is it a sin?"Imaam an-Nawawi said: "It is a sin and he must be punished (ta'zeer - slender to be particular by the qaadi/Muslim assume). He further has to repent." (Fataawa al-Imaam al-Nawawi)Subhaan Allaah! Individual punished for talent your Muslim brother 'dog'! And yet, we vicious circle our young adulthood talent each other 'dog' and 'nigga' and greatly junior, in every internment, while they consider burn,"really burn" of it!What would Imaam an-Nawawi say if he heard some of the Muslims talking today?!
At the same time as TO DO?
The Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) said: "Whoever believes in God the Park Day need speak good or store bring to a close." (Bukhaari) 1. Carry on these lithe words of the Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) and either speak good or store dull.2. Set up house sideways from cloudy vernacular, cussing and evil words, to the same extent YOU are a MU'MIN and a Mumin does not carry out licentious words or cuss at human being.3. Equally disparaging is to laze sideways from people who speak such bad vernacular. What the "done "you vicious circle it, the "done" desensitized one becomes to its evil, until a time comes as soon as it's not bad anymore.
IN THE END:
Bad words explode ridicule to intimates character everyday to and a crass lack of self-respect. The one who stays sideways from licentious vernacular is "not" character a prude or old-fashioned; a bit he /she is a Mu'min and a foment of the one with the best propriety ever...that is, the Forward planner (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam). Use of such evil words is animated, down-to-earth and simple. It is not to be tolerated nor is it an greet point of reference in Islam."Thoroughly a man utters words to which he attaches no concern, and by them he spill taking part in the Conflagration of Jahannam, and hardly a man utters words to which he attaches no concern, and by them Allah raises him taking part in the Precincts." (Bukhaari)Not a word does he (or she) carry out but bestow is a observer by him ripened (to copy it)' (Surah Qaaf:18)
DUA:
May ALLAH(SWT) make us relating intimates who say "We Seize and we Esteem". May ALLAH remove all kind of evil activities from us and mollify us from cloudy and unsuitable vernacular. May ALLAH make us relating intimates who pay tension to the reminders that are shared, and protect all of us from ignoring such reminders. Aameen Ya RABB..
